I have a friend who is only 35 but she runs off every man she is interested in. She is not overbearing, is intelligent, funny, and is great fun to be around. However, she scares guys off with her over-eligibility. She seldom makes concrete plans because she wants to be available.
She doesn’t know how to live the legitimate aspect of hard-to-get. It’s not a game. It’s giving someone space. But more so, it is letting the other person know she has a life without him and that is crucial for any relationship to be healthy. Men don’t like to feel smothered and it doesn’t hurt them to know that occasionally (or may even frequently) the object of their affection has other things to do that don’t include them.
Besides, it keeps up interest. We all can get bored with someone really quick when they are always around. And one thing the young women of today’s culture have not learned is that men really do like to do the chasing. And when they are chased, they run.
About Me
- Hattie
- South Carolina, United States
- I am an older woman who never thought she would marry when she was young. However, after letting go of my mission to catch a man, I did marry and, 30 years later, am still in love. I hurt when I see so many single men and women around me who long to have a mate but don’t. It is my heart’s desire to share things that hopefully will help them learn how to be honest with themselves about things that need to change in their lives, with the goal that they will find someone to love and to be loved by.
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